This kind of belief used to be effective decades ago. Men used to be the only ones to support the family and women stays at home to take care of the kids and do chores. Women are not allowed to go to work or sometimes not even get an education because men were the priority of the family and society. Men used to be the only provider and the pride of the family but nowadays, more and more women are stepping up to break these rules. More women are now engaging into business, sports, jobs, etc and some men are now embracing the house chores and looking after the kids. 

Is this a bad thing? Definitely not. 

I believe that responsibility doesn't have sexuality. Responsibility applies to everyone whether you're a guy or a girl. It's a human nature to do what you have to do simply because you're a person and you care enough to help the opposite gender.

Staying at home and taking care of the kids as a guy won't make you less of a man, neither cleaning the house or doing the laundry. Going to work as a girl and hustling everyday won't make you less of a woman either, neither doing carpentry or any other jobs that are used to be only for men. The world today doesn't work that way anymore. Men should help doing the house chores or take care of the children because they care about the other members of the family. They should do their responsibility inside or outside the house simply because they are human, a caring person, a loving one and not because they are men. On the other and, women should know how to repair things, do carpentry, work hard and support the family, also because they want to be able to contribute to the family and succeed along with the opposite gender. 

This is something probably not everyone would agree with but we all have to understand that the world and society is changing and innovating along with men and women. We do not do something alone and never will. Women and men are sometimes being disregarded on different situations only because some of us cannot accept the fact that there are a lot of things that we are now capable of doing. Whether it's a responsibility to the society, to nature, to the world, politics, business, self-growth and family.

There's no such thing as sexuality when comes to doing something we are capable of doing. There's no such thing as gender when we help people. We do whatever we can to help each other to create a better world despite all the chaos. We all thrive to create a community that is open to everyone no matter how they want themselves to be or act like. We all need to stop sexualizing our responsibility as a person.

Stop comparing, and start doing.

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